Hi! I’m Lydia (she/her), a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in relational dynamics, somatic practices, sex and sexuality, trauma, and the ways our bodies carry our experiences.
Who I See
For individual therapy, I work with adults wanting to understand themselves more clearly; both emotionally & relationally. Many people come in while exploring their identity or their sexuality, moving through trauma, or trying to shift patterns that no longer serve them.
My work is sex-positive and affirming of all genders and orientations. I focus on authenticity, desire, pleasure, and the ways trauma and lived experience shape how we connect to ourselves and others.
For relationship work, I support partners who want to communicate better, rebuild connection, deepen intimacy, or navigate challenges in their sex life or sexuality. I also work with partners exploring ethical non-monogamy, kink/BDSM dynamics, as well as those wanting a more intentional, grounded relationship structure.
Whether you come alone or with a partner, my space offers a compassionate space. A place to tune in, get curious, and build toward the connection and ease you’re longing for.
How I Practice Therapy
I operate with the understanding that your story belongs to you, and our work is to explore it collaboratively and with care. I believe our bodies, our stories, our relationships carry wisdom, and when we learn to listen, new possibilities often emerge.
I also believe in talking about the hard things: the taboo, tender, and often avoided parts of being human — sex, trauma, fantasies, struggles, and the narratives we’re told to keep quiet. This is a space where nothing is too much, too strange, or too shameful to bring into the room.
I work from a systems perspective, which means we look at how your body, relationships, sexuality, nervous system, and larger communities all influence one another.
My approach blends relational, somatic, narrative, and emotion-focused therapy, guided by attachment principles, polyvagal theory, and trauma-informed care.
In short, I see you as a whole human with many interconnected parts, and I help you build relationships within and around you that feel steady, meaningful, and well balanced.
When I’m not with clients
You’ll most likely find me in the kitchen with an emotional-support-TV-show on, out on a boat in Southeast Alaska, stretching and folding bread dough, daydreaming about sheep, writing poetry, putting garlic in everything, telling the same stories to my husband, or playing Catan with my kids.
Alight’s Vision
Much like how a bird settles onto a branch after flight, therapy offers a place to land, to rest, and to regain strength before taking off again. At Alight, our goal is to provide a space where you can pause, reflect, and find the support you need to move forward. Change isn’t about rushing to the next destination. It’s about understanding yourself, making sense of your experiences, and feeling grounded enough to take your next steps with confidence.
“Like a bird on the wire, I have tried in my way to be free.”
Credentials
My professional qualifications include:
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) | Colorado: MFT.0002843 | Alaska : MFT# 236945
Master of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy | Northcentral University | COAMFTE Accredited Institution
EMDR Training | Maiberger Institute | Approved by the American Psychological Association (APA)
Certified Sex Informed Therapist | Modern Sex Therapy Institutes | APA Approved
Neurodivergent Informed EMDR Certificate | Trauma Therapist Institute | EMDRIA Approved Provider | 8 hour training
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certificate | The Embody Lab | Approved by the American Psychological Association (APA).
Certified Somatic Sex Therapist (in process)| Modern Sex Therapy Institutes | APA Approved
Somatic Attachment Therapy | The Embody Lab | 40 hour training
Working with Infidelity | Relational Life Institute | 8 hour training
Ongoing Clinical Consultation
Professional Endorsements
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“Lydia is an exceptional relationship and sex therapist whose ability to support couples in fostering healthy, harmonious relationships is commendable. She has deep understanding of the complex family dynamics and a compassionate, client-centered approach.”
—Trisha Andrews, LMFT, CST
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“Lydia approaches each of her clients with a contagious sense of warmth and curiosity. Her special blend of compassion, somatic methods, and patience make her a truly skilled clinician that can help her clients navigate any challenge.”
—Lauren Crandall, MA, MFTC
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“In therapy with Lydia, you'll feel connected to, truly seen, fairly assessed, and you'll know the relationship between your body and your feelings intimately. Lydia is a skilled, tremendously knowledgeable somatic therapist and holistic healer.”
—Helen Wyatt, MA, LMFT
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